Parents are the blessings of God, but grandparents are the ‘grand-blessings’ of God. Those who have these blessings are the lucky ones. According to my experience, grandparents are even more loving than your own parents. Parents may scold you, even some of the parents’ abuse and beat up their children if they find them doing anything wrong. But grandparents are not like that, though they tell the kids how to see the different between right and wrong, yet they never treat children harshly. Grandparents just flow their love constantly towards the kids all the time.

Before moving on, let me throw some light on this beautiful relation by quoting my own example. As far as my experience is concerned, I live my Dada (grandfather) even more than my own father. I haven’t seen such a loving person in my life, which always gave and expected nothing but love. I really don’t know how did he always knew what was going on inside my mind; he always fulfilled all my wishes before letting me ask for anything. Since my childhood, I used to sleep with my Dada and he used to tell me stories all night. He used to make me feel like a prince and before going to bed everyday I used to tell him, “Dada, I don’t like this bed sheet, I will sleep on a new one.” And he did whatever I asked him to do. I always accompanied him wherever he went. I still remember those days when he used to withdraw money by my hands from bank. While having ice cream at parlor I used to say, “Dada, Aik yahan khaonga aur aik ghar ja kar” (Grandfather, I will eat one here and will take one home). By quoting al this I want you to understand how living the grandparents are. Grandparents love grandchildren more than their own kids. It was my Dada who bought me my first bicycle and my first car when I grew up. I never had enough courage to ask my father for anything. Whenever I needed anything, I went straight to my Dada. He never refused me. May his soul rest in peace! Ameeeen

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Daughters are parents’ darlings. They are always very close to their parents. A daughter is a relation who though doesn’t live with her parents forever, but still parents and daughters exercise a special closeness in their relation. A grownup daughter starts a new life after her marriage but she never cuts herself off from her parents. She always thinks about them and never misses any chance to serve her parents. Though sons live with their parents all their life, but you might have noticed that after they are married some of them redefine their relations.

A son is son till he takes him a wife, a daughter is a daughter all of her life. ~Irish Saying

For some of them, the wife matters most and for her they often argue with their parents and even treat them harshly. However, you will seldom see a daughter misbehaving with her parents. Daughter-parent relation is one of the most loving relations in the world.

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Relationships are the key ingredients for making a home. Good relations constitute a good home, but bad ones ruin the peace of home. Infect bad relations do not even let a house become a home. Home is a place which is erected on the foundation stones of love and perfect relationships. So, love and relationships should be nourished for making your house a perfect home.

Today I am going to discuss a very important issue which ruins the peace of your home i.e. sibling rivalry. Those who have siblings can very well understand this term. Wherever there are kids, they fight. Though it’s quite natural but often it leads to some serious issues when the children grow up. This rivalry is retained throughout childhood and turns out to be really destructive after teenage.

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A friend can be defined in a single word, i.e. angel. Friends are the physical and visible version of angels in earth. In fact, I would say that friends are even more angelic than the angles themselves. An angel may extract out your soul from your body any time on God’s order. But friendship is that relation which is all about giving and being selfless.

Friendship is that gift of God to mankind which is the base of every relation. Any relation without friendship cannot be pure. Friendship gives purity to relations, it gives loyalty to these relations and it makes the bonds even more strong.

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