Common Phobias

Posted by admin | Essay | Saturday 6 February 2010 7:22 am

Necrophobia

Necrophobia or fear of the dead is a psychological status when you feel afraid of death or maybe you are afraid of dead things. Imagine yourself standing in a museum room with dead things around. The mummy with skeletal features and several carcasses of extinct animals of the world — all are looking as if ready to catch a prey when no one is around. Necrophobia can make you feel tremendously nervous.

Brontophobia

Fear of thunderstorms. Brontophobia knows as Astraphobia, Keraunophobia, Tonitrophobia or the fear of lightning and thunder, especially affects children. However, the symptoms of this specific phobic condition are also quite apparent in adults and teenagers.

Carcinophobia

Fear of cancer. Carcinophobia is an extreme form of fear from a deadly disease called cancer. This phobic condition is quite unnatural as it makes the individual afraid of all sorts of negative bodily symptoms. One physical discomfiture and the person start believing that he cancer.

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Overcoming Fear

Posted by admin | Essay | Thursday 4 February 2010 11:06 am

One of the most common and primal emotion that is found in every human being is ‘fear’. Every human being, regardless of his or her age or circumstances, experiences fear at any stage of life. It can be the fear of dark, fear of being alone, fear of certain animals and insects, fear of failure, fear of monetary loss and many others.

Fear develops mainly because of uncertainty and doubt. When there is the feeling of not knowing what will happen next, fear creeps into the mind. Fear sometimes becomes so dominant that it completely takes over one’s lifestyle. For instance, the fear of failure sometimes drives the person to becoming a workaholic.

Sometimes fears develop into forms of uncontrollable psychological disorders and become phobias. According to the basic theory attempting to explain the occurrence of phobias and other irrational fears, fears are psychological traumas, experienced in one’s childhood, that have been forgotten, but a part of them has been stamped on one’s subconscious forever.

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Trust: The foundation of every relationship

Posted by admin | Essay | Saturday 14 November 2009 7:43 am

Trust is the fundamental part of any relationship. No relationship can survive without trust. As soon as the trust is a relationship breaks, the relationship breaks as well. If you do not trust a person, your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust in him or her. Trust is not only limited to a romantic relationship, trust is the basis of any relationship, be it a mother and daughter, father and son, husband and wife, brothers and sisters and even friends.

Trust

Trust is mostly an emotional act, often determined by the feelings that you have for the person that you trust. It is classified as an emotional act because when you trust people you expose your vulnerabilities to people, while believing they will not take advantage of your openness. We fee trust. Emotions associated with trust include companionship, friendship, love, agreement, relaxation, comfort. When we trust someone, we may not only be giving them something in the hope of getting something back in the future, we may also be exposing ourselves in a way that can enable them to take advantage of our vulnerabilities. If I buy a car from you and I do not know a good price, you can lie to me so you get a better bargain. If I tell you in confidence about the problems I am having with work, you could use this to further your own career at my expense. These kind of acts betray the trust of the other person and not only do they make him or her feel betrayed, cheated and hurt, they also make it difficult for that particular person to trust someone ever again.

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